C’est Hallowe’en!

Autumn is here; which means kids are starting to plan for Halloween. It’s over a month away but retail stores, magazines; pretty much all of North America recognizes that Halloween is approaching quickly. Parents just got past the back-to-school rush and now they have to think about costumes and pumpkins?

Nonetheless, Halloween is a big event for me. I swear you’d think I was still a child b/c I’m super excited to shop for costumes, watch all the Halloween themed sitcoms and start searching for creative pumpkin stencils than the average Mom. When my Today’s Parent October 2011 issue came in the mail, I was eager to read anything related to Halloween.

In this issue, there are lots of fun, easy spooky Halloween recipes you can make with your kids. If you’re already starting to shop for candy and decorations, you should start thinking about planning a day to do family baking. Whether it’s raining, sunny or trying to get into the Halloween spirit, try this spooky themed recipe with your kids and enjoy all the fun messy moments together.

Sprinkly Marshmallow Pops:
½ cup chocolate chips
½ cup Halloween coloured sprinkles
12-15 large marshmallows
12-15 popsicles or wooden candy sticks

1. Place chocolate chips in a small microwave-safe bowl. Microwave, uncovered on high, stirring once, until chocolate is nearly melted, about 1 minute. Stir to melt fully.
2. Place sprinkles in a bowl
3. Dip each marshmallow in chocolate so it goes partway up the sides. Then dip chocolate in sprinkles. Place marshmallows, sprinkle side up, on baking tray to set. Once set, poke sticks into centre of plain side of marshmallow.

Makes 12-15 marshmallow pops.

In 1 pop: 66 calories, 1.5 g fat

www.todaysparent.com/

Raychel - The Furniture Colouring Artist

Raychel loves to colour. This is a normal activity for a toddler. She likes to colour in books, paper, carpet and on her hands. She enjoys using her Tadoodles in the bath and colouring on the wall tiles.

But her favourite thing to colour is the living room sofa.

First off, let me describe our sofa: leather, contemporary style, pale yellow with chrome leg pegs. Our daughter thinks it’s a big blank canvas. As you can imagine, our sofa has seen better days.

I like to think she is a creative child that is inspired by all the amazing things around her. She is learning something new every day and she feels the need to express her creativity through her marker. As much as I want her to be the next Picasso, we have to stop her from damaging the furniture. How? We must buy her an art easel.

I will plan to take Raychel to Toys R Us soon and let her see the easels in stock. I’ve done my research and found a few easels she may like. Check out these pics.

We hope that buying her an easel will eliminate her desire to colour on the furniture. But, if the occasional accident occurs, I will take some tips on how to remove the stains from the following website:

http://www.housecleaningcentral.com/en/cleaning-tips/stain-removal/permanent-marker.html

Parents, I recommend buying Crayola’s Tadoodles for bath time fun. They’re easy to use, come in variety of colours and non-toxic in case your toddler decides to have a snack. You can get them at Wal-Mart, Zellers, Toys R Us.

Here’s what they look like:

Kid-Friendly Toronto/GTA Restaurants

Dining Out w/kids? No problem! Check out where Kids Eat Free!

1. Montana’s
   When? Tuesday
   www.montanas.ca/



2. Hooters
   When? Weekends
   www.hooters.to/



3. East Side Mario’s
   When? Monday
   www.eastsidemarios.com/



4. Frankie Tomatto
   When? Monday
   www.frankietomatto.com/



5. Pizza Hut
   When? Tuesday
   www.pizzahut.ca/



6. Boston Pizza
   When? Any day with an adult purchasing a meal
   www.bostonpizza.com/en/promos/KidsEatFree



7. Golden Griddle
   When? Wednesday
   http://www.goldengriddlecorp.com/



8. Denny’s
   When? Tuesday, Saturday between 4PM-10PM
   www.dennys.ca/

*Also, refer to these websites for other Kids Eat Free restaurants:

http://www.hottorontodeals.com/2009/08/kids-eat-free-in-toronto-restaurants-a-complete-guide-to-childrens-dining-deals-around-the-gta-.html

http://www.mrfreestuff.com/kids-eat-free-canada/

Happy Dining Friends!

Uh-No! Back Up Child Care

“I will not play tug o' war. I'd rather play hug o' war. Where everyone hugs instead of tugs, Where everyone giggles and rolls on the rug, Where everyone kisses, and everyone grins, and everyone cuddles, and everyone wins.” - Shel Silverstein

There is a high demand for good quality, affordable child care in Scarborough. Simply put, there's not enough supply to support the demand. Since I'm back in the work force, I need consistent and reliable child care service. Yes, having it be affordable is a huge factor, but to me what I value the most is consistency. I know we can't avoid illness, personal appointments, other reasons to be absent from work but if your primary child care service provider calls in sick last minute, what do YOU do? Ask family members? Friends? Work from home?

Sometimes parents don't have a backup support of family or friends. How do they overcome this issue? In regards to my situation, I am lucky enough to have in-laws who can assist if I'm ever stuck without a babysitter.

Also, here's one of my backup solution: I've asked whenever possible with my babysitter to please let me know 24 hours in advance IF they feel like they're unable to watch Raychel the next day (a cold/sickness is starting). This isn't always possible but if a friendly "headup" is given to me, I have the chance to start coordinating alternative child care arrangements before it's too late.

Setting up alternative child care is very important to us at this current moment because of my new job. I have a 3 month probation period and I want to make a good impression. My child care needs to be solid because I can't afford to take time off or work from home. Ray will need to be a stronger support unit too during this probation period since he would technically have more flexibility to work from home if necessary.

I will however take additional precautions by investigating last minute babysitting services that are frequently advertising in Today's Parent. Here are a list of Babysitting Vendors in the Toronto area I plan to research:

Nannies On Call

www.nanniesoncall.com

Canadian Sitters

http://www.canadiansitter.ca/

Custom Comfort Care Inc.

www.customcomfortcare.ca

I'll keep you posted on my discoveries and experiences.

Toddlers and the cold/flu season

It's near the end of cold/flu season, however children are still managing to get sick. We as parents take preventative measures to avoid our child(ren) catching a cold but some how they manage to still catch a cold. Don't feel like a bad parent; it's very common. No matter how frequently you wash their hands, dress accordingly to the weather, stay hydrated and get the proper amount of sleep, we can't stop them from getting sick. Here are a few signs and symptoms of your wee one starting to get sick:

Watery eyes, runny/stuffy nose, bad cough, diarrhea, fever, achy ears, loss of appetite.

Raychel is almost 16 months so my fears and concerns are very different to when she was under 6 months if she started to show signs of sickness. She's a bit older , has been healthy all of her life and didn't have too many complications from 0-6 months where it's a higher risk for sick babies. They say if a child under 6 months develops a fever, call your doctor immediately.

A common sick trait for Raychel is watery, red sore eyes. Just by looking at them, it affects her whole facial expression and you can tell she's not herself. She looks very dazed and tired; just suffering. Some people would say this is a common allergy symptom but this trait is due to a cold.

When this occurs, I give her Coryzalia Cold - from the boiron line. Also, I wipe and pat her eyes with a clean, damp cloth.

Lastly, to help Raychel sleep through the night with a cold, I turn on the humidifier in her room (Thanks Rehana). It's made by Vicks and it has a section where you add Vicks vapour eucalyptus oil that releases through the mist vapour to help with breathing. It's very soothing and calming and works well for her.

Todaysparent.com states when using a humidifier for your child, it's important to keep it bacteria-free. Use distilled water when filling it up, be sure to empty all the leftover water from previous use, and clean/disinfect the water reservoir frequently.

Good luck; this season is almost done!

Raychel’s “healthy” Kraft Dinner meal

Planning dinner for the family after a long day of work can be challenging. Then on top of this, you have to cook it too. I will admit that I will occasionally depend on quick meals like Kraft Dinner because I may not have the energy to cook a proper home-cooked meal. But I do try to ensure that Raychel eats vegetables and protein with her meals so here’s my version of a “healthy” Mac & Cheese.

First off, I say “healthy” in quotations because I can’t hide the fact that there’s sodium and other products that is not recommended on a daily basis. However, I can incorporate some fresh produce to the meal to ensure that she gets a balanced diet. KD has whole wheat pasta now so you can avoid filling up on white starch and still enjoy the traditional taste.

I use the following items:

1 box of whole wheat Kraft Dinner (2 boxes if Ray is having some too)

½ cup of peas or green beans (frozen or fresh, never canned)

½ cup of carrots cut into cubes (frozen or fresh, never canned)

Optional: 2 grilled chicken breasts, cut into cubes (cut them in a fashion to avoid choking)

Cook the mac & cheese like you normally would. Start grilling the meat; ensure that it’s cooked thoroughly. Set aside and let cool. Then in a separate pot, cook the veggies until they’re tender. After the cheese has been added to the pasta, strain the veggies and add to the pasta. Mix well. Cut the chicken and add to the pasta and veggies. Mix one last time.

If you don’t have any meat, you can use canned tuna. I would recommend the tuna after the child has been tested for allergies.

I often have leftovers so we will pack this for her lunch for daycare. She enjoys eating this meal because it’s colouful, helps her develop fine motor skills (uses her fingers or spoon to fed), and it’s cheese flavour – something she adores.

In total, this takes 15 mins to cook. 5-10 mins to prep. From box to dinner table, under 30 mins maximum.

Bon Appetite!

Raychel and her left hand

Raychel has been developing her fine motor skills without any complications - however we have noticed that she favours her left hand more than her right to feed, colour, grab any items, etc. I don't think is a big issue, since both her maternal grandfather, 2nd cousin William and great-grandfather are lefty's, but Ray fears that she will face challenges in the world b/c it's designed for righty's only. I think this fear also is naturally engrained from a past stigma b/c society would not accept left-handed people and would force them in some shape or form to use their right hand. Either way, Raychel's left hand is a lot stronger and easier for her to use than her right and we should just encourage her to be herself.

Interesting facts:

• Experts say that parents won't be able to determine true right- or left-handedness until a child is 2 or 3 years old, when a child begins to favor the same hand consistently.
• Also, some children may be ambidextrous (using both hands equally) until they're 5 or 6, when they finally make a choice.
• Lastly, hand dominance is greatly influenced by genetics. So, if both parents are left-handed, your child has a 45 to 50 percent chance of being left-handed as well (about 10 percent of people are left-handed).

Raychel's lefty behaviour could be temporary - who knows? And if she is a lefty - that's okay too.

Top 10 Favourite Parenting Items/Places to take Raychel of 2010

1. Favourite Parenting Magazine: Today's Parent
2. Favourite Toy Brand: V-Tech
3. Favourite Children's Clothing Brand: Carter's
4. Favourite Infant snack: Baby Mum Mum's
5. Favourite Formula: Heinz
6. Favourite Family Restaurant: The Keg (yes, I know it's not normally known for being a family restaurant but she loves their bread and mashed potatoes).
7. Favourite Infant Juice: Heinz Pear Juice
8. Favourite Hotel: Kowloon Hotel, Hong Kong
9. Favourite Movie in theatre: Tangled
10. Favourite Outdoor Attraction: Tie - Toronto Zoo/Whittamore's Farm

I also have some great 2010 milestones that deserve to be mentioned.

Special mentions: - Disneyland (HK)/DisneyWorld, Coney Island, Central Park, Wonderland, CNE, Chuck'e'Cheese, Hong Kong, Englewood Beach, all of Florida, all of Hong Kong, the Cottage (Haliburton).